Thrive in Marriage – Week 1: Complete Surrender

Surrender in marriage is often misunderstood. It is not weakness, silence, or loss—it is a sacred act of trust that unfolds in stages and leads to freedom.

The first stage of surrender is submission. Scripture reminds us, “All of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another” (1 Peter 5:5). In marriage, submission begins when we choose humility over pride and ask a deeper question: In what ways does God want me to serve—my spouse, my marriage, and His purpose?

The second stage is positive action. True surrender always shows up in how we live. It requires intentional choices—speaking with grace, responding with patience, and loving with purpose. Surrender is not passive; it is an active decision to reflect Christ in our daily interactions.

The final stage of surrender is the freedom and healing it produces. When we humble ourselves as Christ served, we gain access to grace. “Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence” (Hebrews 4:16). In surrender, God meets us with mercy, restores what is broken, and renews what feels weary.

Today’s reminder: surrender does not take from your marriage—it gives life to it. When we lay down control, we make room for God’s healing, peace, and transforming love.

Prayer Reflection: Lord, teach us how to surrender fully in our marriages. Help us to serve with humility, act with love, and trust You with the healing You promise.

Amen.